When to get married is a question to which every person is seeking an answer to, whether rich or poor, introvert or an extrovert. What’s the right age to get married is debatable? Every community has its own set of logic when it comes to marriage. Some say a girl should marry at an age of 21-25 and for boys, the ideal age is 25-29. Whereas, in some countries the ideal age for a person, be it a girl or a boy, to get married is when they are above 28-29 years.
Every country, society, religion and country have a varied perspective. Studies show that marrying between the age of 28-32 leads in fewer divorces than marrying before or after this age-group does. Then again, in India people believe that 28 is too late for getting married. As we said, “different opinion”.
Let’s figure out some pros and cons of getting married at different ages.
At an age of 22-25
This is the time when a person completes his/her graduation and is either seeking a job or pursuing higher education/degrees or trying to set up his/her own business. Means at this time everyone is at a stage where they are setting up their career. Also, this is an age when people fell in love, dates many and are active romantically. Now, as we know the situation a person is in during this age group, let’s move on and analyse its pros and cons.
At an age of 25-30
At this age, you have started your career. Some of you are settled and satisfied with your jobs but most are still struggling to achieve their goals and fulfil their dreams. You know who you are by this age and you know what you want to do with your life and you start the journey to that path. Most of you (especially in India) feels that you’re ready to get married.
At an age of 30-35
At this age, you are settled in your career and earning well. Know what you want in life. You have everything planned and good management skills. Your age made you mature to handle tough situations calmly. You have dealt with the opposite sex a lot and have had enough romantic experiences with them to know what you desire in your partner.
At an age of 35+
You are definitely an independent and successful person. You have a strong friends circle to provide you with emotional support. A lot of time might have been invested by you in different jobs to discover your interests and know what you wanted to earn a living. You have dated enough people and now your dating pool has extended to divorced, widowed and single moms/dads.
There are both pros and cons of marrying at every age. According to studies, in India 23-27 is considered an ideal age to marry whereas in other countries ideal marrying age is considered to be 28-32 years. But there is a time for everyone to get married.
As per astrology marrying before or after that time can bring negative impact on marriage and family members. The ideal age to marry depends upon the ascendants of a person. Each planet asks for its own age to marry which depends on their placement.
According to our astrologer, Suman Adil, who has experience of 25 years in astrology, a Manglik person should not marry before the age of 28. If he/she does then they will face multiplied problems as compared to the one who marries after the age of 28.
Rahu, Ketu, Mangal, Shani and Surya are the delaying factors or planets for a marriage. Whereas, Chandra, Budh, Brihaspati and Shukra are the planets who demands early marriage. Read more about Mangal Dosha
Your perfect time to tie a knot can be determined by your horoscope. To identify your ideal time you need to consult an astrologer. 50% of the cited divorces in India are of people who marry during a different time than their horoscope determine.